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Play it Forward
Read more: Play it ForwardWhen thoughts of alcohol dance in your headPlay the tape forward and go to bed Wake up ready to face the day refreshed Or at least feel ok With no hellish hangover That’s such a good reason not to frown orStart your day on a downer And proper sleep You know When you’re dreaming deepThey should bottle that stuff…
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Serenity- Letting go of the Drama in Sobriety
Read more: Serenity- Letting go of the Drama in SobrietyI never knew the direction I was headed in when I decided to quit drinking. There was the inner me, screaming for peace and there was the even deeper me wanting to be set free from all the drama and people’s demands. As a kind, empathic person, I attracted ALL the “woe is me” people…
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Trying Ocsober Might be a Great Gift to You and Your Kids as Well
Read more: Trying Ocsober Might be a Great Gift to You and Your Kids as WellI heard of Dry July and Ocsober for the first time four years ago on an Australian website called Hello Sunday Morning. While desperately googling, and thinking, How do I Stop Drinking? Am I an Alcoholic? I stumbled over HSM and began blogging my way dry among others on three-month or twelve-month alcohol-free challenges. I didn’t fit the…
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Remembering to save my Life
Read more: Remembering to save my LifeThe blackouts now were very real Thank god I was never behind the wheel My lying was catching up with me Never did I really seeHow much the booze was affecting me But now I saw that my brain was involved That’s scary to me As I’m getting old Not only am I on the floor I can barely remember…
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Life Guard
Read more: Life GuardI guard my lifeIt’s up to meNo one to blame now I’m freeThe days were darkI’d got embroiledIn a life of numbingCouldn’t face a day aheadOf mundane tasks & grumpy facesAll my thoughts were taken upGaging time, filling cupWatching the clock & planning aheadGagging his home time , the fear & dreadWould he know ,…
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When is it Bad Enough ?
Read more: When is it Bad Enough ?How do you know when it’s bad enough?Does everyone reach rock bottom?Or is it a more gradual thing?When things start slipping?You know,A missed call that ringsUnanswered textsA task left unfinishedYou’ve no energy to do the one that’s nextA kind of low feelingNo motivation for healingOther than the one you keep on trying to findAt the…
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Sober Curious? The Party Isn’t Over
Read more: Sober Curious? The Party Isn’t OverIs alcohol essential for a good time? The catastrophic shortage of America’s most popular brand of spiked sparkling water is big news right now America is running out of White Claw hard seltzer. That’s the link to the article on CNN’s website. You’ll also find an article in the Atlantic, CBS News, Forbes, Business Insider,…
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I Want to Be Like Her
Read more: I Want to Be Like HerI want to be like herShe looks so happy,So self assuredIn her world there’s not a careIt’s unfairIt seems to me She’s gazing dreamily out the windowLike she has a perfect lifeA perfect family I’m enviousWhy isn’t that us? It’s so damn hard sometimesTryingPretending to be fineMust be strongStop crying But why?We’re not robotsIf we…
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Sobriety in your pocket
Read more: Sobriety in your pocketHave you ever thought as a childhow great would it would beTo have a secret superpower?What wonderful things you could achieveIf you were full of energyNot hindered by feeling too lowToo tired or unmotivated to goTo venture out to see what life really isor could be about Now you’re alcohol freeYou could justifiably shout“Hey look…
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Embrace The Mess of Life?
Read more: Embrace The Mess of Life?Sober curious? How do you embrace the mess of life… sober? Without the wine crutch at the end of the day? Without that dis-connect that we call “adult-play” ? Alcohol-Free? Could that be me? Life is messyIt’s not all cleanImmaculateLike a glossy magazine I’ve seen how untidy things can beI can’t control everythingAnd it’s not…
The Boozemusings Community Blog is written by a diverse group. We are current and former members of the BOOM Rethink the Drink community where we also blog privately, in an anonymous, supportive forum. If you’re drinking too much too often Find us HERE for connection and support when you need it. Life is too short to waste it being wasted.
Featured Pages
- Are You Sober Curious ?
- How to Stop Drinking
- A Family History of Addiction
- Alcohol the Seductive Beast that Kills
- Alcohol, Brain Chemistry, Mindfulness and Neuroplasticity
- Emotional Sobriety
- Staying Sober
- Sober Milestones
- An Alternative to Alcoholics Anonymous and Traditional Recovery
- Debunking the Glamour of Mommy’s Wine Time
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